Porn and relationships
A fellow named Duke1971 left a comment of my previous post about XXX Stories 4 Free saying:
I like pics better than stories, myself, but my gf gets pissy when I surf for it. Maybe stories will do the trick. Any ideas how to bring it up with her?
I’ve heard this before, along with the comments about how unusual I am (as a woman) to be interested in porn. So here’s my advice:
Search for “illustrated erotic stories” like my Babysitter Sex Fantasy and that way you will BOTH be happy. She’ll appreciate the female point of view in the story…and you’ll like the pics to go with it
Start there and if she goes for that you can progress up to couples sites like Couples Pleasure Dome and Erotica for Couples that you can share together. One of the main objections women have to visual porn is that they either feel left out or feel as if they are “not enough” for their man.
If this is a case of her feeling left out, since there really aren’t very many porn sites for women, maybe you can show her this post with the links to porn sites made by and for women like Sssh.com and For the Girls. If she sees that there are sites for her, and for both of you to watch and enjoy together, she may loosen up on the entire concept! Give it a try, and stop back by to let me know how it goes.














on January 24th, 2007 at 10:00 am
Tuesday was nice
. We didn’t get past the babysitter story, that must have brought back some memories or something. I get to check out the other sites this weekend. RAWK!
on January 24th, 2007 at 11:53 am
Great news, Duke! So she’s getting into the whole porn and erotic stories idea…you must be one happy man about that
on January 30th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
Yeah, its quite cool that she’s into it now…it has loosened her up a bit too, so that is cool. I still like to view porn solo too, though - jerking off is a bit different than sex, although its hard to explain.